There is no why as to why you have to your love yourself first. You just simply need to yourself. Understand that you are your own love mission in life. You need to prioritize yourself before you prioritize anyone in your life. You can be in any relationship and still not feel that love for yourself because you might be always depending on others to make you feel loved. So, instead of depending on others, you need to still love yourself.
We get so entangled with the name of love that we forget to prioritise are needs, our desires and our expectations with our own self. It is important to communicate with others but in that communication you never need to forget yourself. You need to remember who you are. You need to remember what do you want you need to remember what is your value in life.
If you don’t love yourself, you will never be able to explore your own self. If you don’t explore your own self and you don’t know enough about your own self, how can you expect to know everything about others. It’s just not possible. Right? You need to know enough about yourself to know something about others.
If you don’t love yourself, you won’t know your choices. When you don’t know what’s your choices and preferences, no matter what you do in life you will always feel unsettled. You will always feel like you’re lacking that happiness in your life. You will feel that stress in your life and you all will always feel wheeled.
So, to know yourself enough and have the peaceful and stress less life, you need to love yourself. You need to understand your own needs, desires and passion. Work over it and you need to just feel your own wife wherever you go. You must never forget yourself in order to please someone. Never ever you must leave your own identity to make yourself acceptable.
Love yourself to that extent that people start loving your vibes but do not start changing your vibes for anyone so that people love you.