Loving someone or having a crush on someone is one of the most beautiful moment of a person life. Especially the time when your eyes rest on someone and you get stuck by the feeling that your mind can think nothing more than them. Your heart aches for them to be in your life. Particularly, if you are in school/college and you have a crush on someone, you will analyze that all your time and attention is focused on them only. Also, you keep on daydreaming that some day you will get chance to talk to them and he/she will be your love. But somehow due to some fear you will miss out the chance to tell your crush how you feel. So, let’s have a check on how can you actually attract your crush/love.
So for the romantic chicks who want to express or impress or attract their crush/love this article is the perfect spot for them. Also here I am, telling you with my own observations. Indeed, Life’s too short to be observed and be obsessed.
What are the tips to attract your crush/love?
There’s enough time so I want you to feel it as you read ahead. Furthermore, leave all your secrets and questions, dump your past and fell blessed and grateful for this happening read.
One of the most attractive feature in a person is not their height or figure or what they dress up with, how rich or poor they are. Today, the most attractive feature in someone is the confidence they carry with them. The way they portray themselves in front of others and the way they keep their points without sounding too rude or cheap and out of the crowd. So be confident of what you speak and what your personality is like. Nothing can be more appealing than a confident person in himself/herself and definitely you will succeed in your mission to attract your crush/love. Trust me.
2) BE KIND
People always tend to fall for someone who is kind and has a very caring nature. Help people by doing good deeds, like some volunteering for some NGOs helping those who need help. Let your crush see your this side of the story that you too have a kind heart and are also helpful in nature. And let them observe and attract your crush/love, let them know that you are kind, polite and caring towards your crush and their feelings. Everybody loves to be with a person who is down to earth rather than a person who showcases his/her attitude for no reason.
3) SENSE OF HUMOUR
Well by sense of humour I don’t mean that you have to throw jokes everytime. But be funny and sarcastic in your talks, tell them some crazy funny embarassing stories that happened in your life. Definitely, you don’t need to be a comedian. All you need to do is, share with them some random funny incidents of your life which helps them laugh and giggle…because a “personal tip: girl’s do like boys who can make them laugh effortlessly.”
A person who is passionate enough towards their goal, is definitely more attractive to other person because this shows the ambitious nature he/she have in their life. A goal to acheive something good in life. And that’s the secret tip which is extremely important to impress your love.
5) GET TO KNOW THEM
Talk to them about what kind of things they like in life, their interests, their hobbies basically find some common grounds. That will help in commuting and let that person know that you are interested to know them. And that will also let them analyze that you are an excellent listener and are patient enough to know about their life too. And are genuinely interested in them. They will definitely want you to meet once more. This tip helps you to attract your crush and strengthen your love bonds.
6) GIVE TIME.
Well, if you have someone as your crush don’t just go on their face and tell them i like you and i want to date you. Give it some time. Time is the greatest weapon. Become a good friend and get to know them. Knowing them as a person and letting them know who you are is going to be very helpful. Take it a step by step. If you are already in love with someone, give them your time. Trust me, that’s the best gift a relationship can ever get and works for you to attract your crush/love.
7) DO NOT BE AFRAID
I have seen many a times one becomes a very good friend to their crushes but are scared to express it to them because of the fear of losing their friendship. Well my friend you need to take the risk, because you have to accept it dear one, a person connects better with someone who is not afraid to express how they feel in a spontaneous way in a conservation and ask them out for a date.
So you need to take that leap of faith otherwise you are going to be friendzoned for life.
8) HELP THEM
A person always like someone who is there for them in the times of trouble. The one who is always willing to stand by their side and willing to help them, keeping aside their own troubles. They feel genuinely attracted to them by their efforts because they know he/ she is there for them and that is a great achievement in itself. You just made your way through the world dear one, and one day your crush will be yours and your love will appreciate your efforts.
9) BE A SUPPORT
Well if you didn’t understand the point, i will explain it to you. You need to be there for them at the time when no one is there for them. When they need the support of someone you need to be there to help them in their life to grow as a person. Your supporting nature will let them know how much you care about them. And you do play such an important part in their life and attract your crush/love.
10) RESPECT HIS/HER DECISIONS
One of the most crucial point. You need to respect the person you want as your partner. And by respecting i do not mean that you need to obey each and every word of them, but you need to have some respect for their decisions they make in life. Definitely one needs to respect their decisions of what they want to do in life and be supportive to them in their cause. This behaviour shows maturity of your emotions towards them. The compassion and respect you have for their feelings and decisions. And it will surely make them fall for you. And make your love live longer.
So these were the few basic tips one should keep in mind on how to impress their crush/love. It’s not a rocket science but definitely needs to be focused like that or else there are chances that you end up losing them. All the very best for your life.
I hope this article is a bit of help to you.